I never had this experience of having a whole room only for me. I mean no sharing with any person just you yourself will be the living entity in that room. So, today I think 3 weeks have been passed since I started having this experience in my life at the age of 21.
First introducing my past history I never had this experience in my whole life as in my joint family there was no separate rooms for children when I it was built.At that age I was not having any concerns in sharing my room (who wants to live in a single room in childhood)but as I came in teenage I felt the need of privacy and freedom (may be for different reason that I am currently having ).
I expressed my desire to get a separate room with eldest person of the family but he told me that it will take time and let me tell you that there has not been any progress in that thing yet.So, I dropped this idea of asking this and just get my freedom by my own way. So, I made drawing room as my room in holidays time and tried to have as much privacy in that room (but the task was difficult as having so many people in that house and little cousins who can not be controlled all the time ).In hostel I cannot have separate room for myself as due to hostel policy there must be at least two people sharing a room.
Let me tell you that not all the time I feel the urge of this feeling of having a separate room for myself instead I am more of a mixed type of guy as being extrovert and introvert depending on moods. So ,when I look to have social companionship then there is no such feeling/urge occur in me of having the whole room only for me.
But sometime there are some activity which I want to do it alone or do not want any disturbance from outside then it can become tricky to actually have it with another person sharing the same room with you.
But I feel very blessed as I got a perfect room mate in college days for last two years who was a very mature guy in terms of giving and having space and respecting freedom for himself and other selves.
So, last two years I haven't felt the real need for it as I can do meditation, whistling songs ,singing songs,rare dancing,extreme laughing ,making funny sounds etc in front of him with him having no problem with that (most of the time) and even enjoying and joining me at several occasions.
Now, enough with my past experience as I believe in living present so leaving all past related thoughts I am going to share about this new experience of mine where I finally got the chance of having my own separate room.
It has been 3 weeks since I got a separate room for myself and I am enjoying myself having a lot of freedom to do recreational thing without interference of other person's thoughts/comments.As writing being my one of my oldest hobby, now I get enough time and space to be as much creative as I can be.So, as long as I will stay in this room more will come out of inner me and will love to share all these experiences with you.
On the final note I want to add this that my viewpoint (trying to be positive) about me not getting the chance of having a separate room for myself is that it might not have given me the kind of freedom I urged for but it made me a more socially adaptable person as it helped me to develop traits like patience,endurance,sharing,friendship and love etc. So, as I see now with a new perspective everything happens for a reason we just have to find that reason to feel satisfied with that new thing.

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