"We're in a relationship."-Such a casual line today.But everytime I hear it,something kicks within.Like 'that's it?' 'That's all you gotta say about this person?' Where is the emotion of LOVE?Love,which is believed to be the utmost purest of emotion....the most unexpressible yet special feeling,one which cannot be bounded into time,words aur money...With the fast paced life we're living nowdays,I think just like ready-to-eat food,we've got used to ready-to-commit emotions."Just a relationship",a concept I totally don't understand and just incase you're confusing this with Love,please see the key points below(yeahh..you're living a BUSY life so....) (Please note:You might not agree to what I've written further and I respect that.Yes,I'm hardcore romantic,call me Orthodox,Old-School but these are purely my thoughts and your cursor-individual choices.)
(1)Saying 'love you' at the end of a call does not mean you're in love.Do you get all jittery infront of him?Does just the mention of her brings a smile on your face?Do you wait every second to talk or see her?No?Then sorry,its 'just' a relationship!
Yes,it sounds very filmy but trust me,when its love,all this happen...
(2)'Just relationships' are only about having somebody to pass time with,hangout,makeout,share stuff cuz at the back of your head you know that its not FOREVER! Had it been eternal love,even the thought of living without that person would seem impossible(not like how guys/girls keep threatning with the 'breakup' word.)
(3)When its love,you yourself will be surprised about that change in yourself.All those materialisitic efforts just won't matter.So,if you care about why he didn't get you your favorite dress as a gift,trust me its just an affair,a short lived 'relationship',don't insult it with the selfless profuse depth of love.
(4)When things will go haywire,you'll wait for it to pass knowing with all your faith that all this is a part and parcel of life,our love can overcome bigger hurdles than this.Need I say more?With all the bf-gf drama.all you worry about is "my" point of view and why didn't the other one understood it!Darlings,love is about completing each other not competing with each other.
(5)When he says anything to you,though at times you might not agree to,but some voice in your HEART would want to follow it cuz you know that he/she wishes well for you.So,if advises you against going to a certain party/place,no matter how much independent/successful a person you are,it'd affect your decision somewhere.You won't feel "suffocated" or keep chanting the "I don't have my space" saga.This is only when you're still two people framing to be together but actually haven't soulfully met yet.
(6)And last: You know he's not the Prince Charming you always dreamt about(probably the totally opposite of that!),she is totally a Wild child.But the way his little acts(that brushing of you hair,that one simple compliment) can make you feel,no treasures in the world can! She has her long list of flaws,he has too...So,why?WHY HIM/HER??You'll never know but you'll still love them unconditionally like that's the only purpose of your life.
(P.s-All this does not come from a movie buff and is definitely NOT a bluff...it happens and is one of the bestest things to happen,just wait for it but don't wait to fall in love,you'll just end up being in another of those 'just a relationship'.)

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