Loving is not the difficult part , it is trusting...

Its not like that, we always put the onus of trusting on other, but the fact is otherwise. The real question should be 'am I trust worthy ?' , In relationships if each ask this question to themselves and correct, if any problem, then relationships are a boon. Expecting other to trust us without being trustworthy is actually akin to a thief asking someone for keys of their house.
If they give the keys they are stupid, if they don't then the thief gets to say you don't trust me :-).

Seen that been there .

Interesting