This is the first time i am writing about personal experiences so openly. I won't say that i am directly linked to it but yes, what i am going to write about is very much talked upon topic. It begins like this......

The flower of love blossoms in everybody's life when they are in their teens (leaving some exceptions). So this is the time when the young ones are supposed to excel in studies to get their careers set in the right direction, and everybody excepts this from us, including our parents. But the trend of having a boyfriend or girlfriend affects teenagers very soon and they fall prey to love. What is actually infatuation is thought to be true love. Its like you see somebody, they ask you for friendship, then phone numbers exchange and finally you decide its love. It is ok till the point you keep discussing about your personal lives or about your secrets. But even young love has its terms and conditions of use. Following the trend of a relationship it is kind of mandatory to engage in physical intimacy. And here does the problem arise. It is easy to detach from a person when you're not physical but as soon as you get physically involved with that person you actually give all you have and then you get so very much attached to that person, which sometimes lead to dangerous consequences such as suicide. But if you are wise enough to think before getting physical, then you fall into the dilemma of breaking your parent's trust or falling for your loved one. The question for a relationship ends here..

But do remember. Never run for love. Be patient, it will come to you by itself after all haven't you heard that love finds a way.
Never rush to do anything. Think twice and just think of your parents every time you feel like doing something wrong. Its your parents who have brought you up not your lover. And at the end, let something free, if it comes back to you it is yours if it doesn't, it was never meant to be.

Tags: Dilemma, Love, Sex

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